The What Ifs

The worst thing I hate about the dating game is the what if’s. Get what I mean? Well its those thoughts you have in your head – all those doubts and questions.

• what if he was lying to me?…
• what if he’s not really busy at work but with someone else…
• what if this doesn’t work out…
• and the list goes on and on

I know that girls tend to overanalyze things. We tend to look at things mostly from a very emotional side. As for me I tend to rationalize my feelings – which can be both a good and a bad thing. Yes I like this guy, but is it worth it?

Most of the time, I find that as much as I like the guy, its not going to work out. And so, I slowly pull myself away, most of the time I tell him the real reason what it won’t work out. Sometimes (with some thick headed people) I just gradually lose contact with them.

No more wondering and waiting for phone calls for me, thank you very much.